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scdmarx

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While on a recent trip to L.A. I took the family on a tour of my old stomp'n grounds. One thing that has always been characteristic of L.A. (for me anyways) is when you leave there and go back 5 years later you don't recognize where you are. But you don't notice the changes when you live there. Strange, but don't ask me to explain it any better than that. If it weren't for recollecting the major cross streets I'd be totally lost. I was born in Redondo Beach and raised in the local proximity. We always has the South Bay, or the Long Beach & Vicinity phone books. Off and on, I lived in Vetura for a couple years at a time. I was in my late twenties when I left there, and haven't been back since, except for some short overnighters. All the places where I used to ride mini bikes and motorcycles ain't there no more. It's all big city now. Not one grain of vacant sand. Kinda sad in a way. My kids were on the edge of their seat while I cruised around pointing out different places that brought back memories of my growing pains while mom was giving me the look ("not in front of the kids") :blush: We had a pretty good time while waiting for the rush hour traffic to die down so we could hit the freeway to home. About a 4 hour drive.
One of the things my kids took special interest in, and I found somewhat amazeing, is the house where we lived when I was born. My mom & dad had this house custom built for $17k in the 50's and I've been told that it was the third house built in a brand new houseing trac. There were no neighbors when mom, dad, older sister and brother moved into this 3 BR 1 BA house. I remember the house pretty well and the houses up and down the street where we played with our friends in the street and in different yards. Today the whole street has a different look. All the houses I remember have been replaced or remodeled. They are all two story mansions or two story multiple dwellings. All the driveways are full, and all the parking on the street is took up. But there still sets our little house, looking kinda dwarfed, pretty much the same as I remembered it. Basically untouched, except for a few bushes and a little fence out front, and seeming a lot smaller than it was when I was a little kid. My daughter took this picture from the back seat of our minivan. I wonder who owns it and how much it's worth today?


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I forgot what it was that I wanted to share. I'm just feeling kinda fortunate to have shared this history with my kids. I'm realizing kids need and want roots. I should start work'n on that.
 
I understand what you mean about roots.

A few years back we were fortunate enough that Mom was still with us, my 2 oldest and wife met her.

She lived in Minnesota and was still well enough to spend the day running all over Mn to show us all the old houses we lived in and 2 of her parents farms.

The lifestyle is very different there compared to my L.A life.
Much of the land and surroundings were as I remembered. I was surprised how much I remembered considering we moved to Ca when I was 6.
The old farm house was still there, along with the hay barn. The house looked just as I remembered, all worn out just like you'd imagine an old farm house to look. Nobody was home, would have loved to look inside.

To me everything looked much smaller than I remembered, especially the big farm.
I thought the big field in front went on for miles at age 6.

Mn is a beautiful state, I miss it quite a bit sometimes.
One of my fondest memories is walking to school and hearing the ice crack under my feet and how slippery this little walking bridge was we had to cross.
The smell of the school bus and the cold.
The field behind the house we ran thru to the train tracks we put pennies on.
The amazing taste of the home grown radishes.
These memories almost bring tears to my eyes, they would if I didn't hold them back.

I wonder if my 2 oldest will remember this trip, what fond memories will they have of their childhood growing up in L.A.

I have pictures of these places somewhere. I'll post up a few.

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Wow found the pics, that was almost too easy!

Man time flies, these were taken in 2000.

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There are more but I don't want to bore the group with my family pics.
 
dan filipi":3cbon26l said:
There are more but I don't want to bore the group with my family pics.
Bore the group?? The point of this thread is anything but boring!! (Thanks scdmarx!)

My oldest daughter, born in Connecticut, grew up down the Jersey shore, moved to just outside Philadelphia, and has lived in multiple environments. She is now married raising two kids and lives on a farm in Ohio. She loves farm life!

I grew up in Philadelphia and moved quite a bit during my life (nature of being a Ship Captain). Our children do not have any one house to look back at and call home, for them home is where we are living today. We have lots of memories from each location. The world they live in today is so much different than the world we grew up in!
 
mcgovern61":2r4ht0a4 said:
dan filipi":2r4ht0a4 said:
There are more but I don't want to bore the group with my family pics.
Bore the group?? The point of this thread is anything but boring!! (Thanks scdmarx!)

The world they live in today is so much different than the world we grew up in!

It took having kids for me to realize the different world.

BTW, I'm not exactly sure what the point of this thread is, but you're welcome anyways. ;)
 
scdmarxIt took having kids for me to realize the different world. BTW said:
Could not agree more. I used to be all about "right now" and did not think much about the future/could not figure why people were so worried about it. Now I get it. Having kids is a fantastic/frustrating/wonderful/scary thing.

I find that sharing even what I consider insignificant details of my life as a child get my kids all excitied. My sister lives in the house we grew up in. Even just telling my girls about riding up and down the drainage ditch walls on our bicycles is facinating to them.
 
Those are a couple of good looking kids you have there, Dan. How old are they now? My youngest daughter is ten and she is on the cusp of losing that childhood innocence that you can see on the faces of your kids in that picture. I will miss it.
 
Thank you Andy.

In that photo my oldest girl was 7, son 4.
16 and 13 now, time flies.

My youngest girl is 7. Momma and I are hanging on to her childhood innocence as long as we can :crying:
 
it don't last long Dan............... seems like kids growup a lot faster than they did when I was a kid.
 
sledge":3sd5rz6o said:
it don't last long Dan............... seems like kids growup a lot faster than they did when I was a kid.

Too Fast it seems sometime's. I just gave mine her first vehicle and she's driving all over Sault Ontario. Seems funny her driving me around LOL

They grow up so fast.
 

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