Passing of My Friend.

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AApple

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Bogie D. Adams
Born: Dec 1998
Passed: Nov 17, 2012

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I remember bringing you home. You were so small and cuddly with your tiny paws and soft fur.

You bounced around the room with eyes flashing and ears flopping. Once in awhile, you'd let out a little yelp just to let me know that this was your territory.

Making a mess of the house and chewing on everything in sight became a passion, and when I scolded you, you just put your head down and looked up at me with those innocent eyes, as if to say, "I'm sorry, but I'll do it again as soon as you're not watching."

As you got older, you protected me by looking out the window and barking at everyone who walked by. When I had a tough day at work, you would be waiting for me with your tail wagging, just to say, "Welcome home. I missed you." You never had a bad day and I could always count on you to be there for me.

When I sat down to read the paper and watch TV, you would hop on my lap, looking for attention. You never asked for anything more than to have me pat your head so you could go to sleep with your head over my leg.

As you got older, you moved around more slowly. Then, one day, old age finally took its toll and you couldn't stand on those wobbly legs anymore. I knelt down and patted you lying there, trying to make you young again. You just looked up at me as if to say that you were old and tired and that after all these years of not asking for anything, you had to ask me for one favor.

With tears in my eyes, I drove you one last time to the vet. One last time you were lying next to me. For some strange reason, you were able to stand up in the animal hospital; perhaps it was your sense of pride.

As the vet led you away, you stopped for an instant, turned your head and looked at me as if to say,
"Thank you for taking care of me."

I thought, "No.... thank you for taking care of me."



Yesterday was one of the hardest days of my life....I had to see my best friend go. I brought him home when he was only 3 weeks old, as his mother had run off and died. He was born under a car at the shop, in the cold rain. When I finally found the mother, she was up under a car giving birth, and when I saw him, I knew I was going to take him home when the time was right. Unfortunately, that time came a little sooner than planned. I did take him home, and Kathy bottle-fed him. The rest of the litter was either taken in by another co-worker, or we found homes for them.
Kathy came up with his name, Bogie, since I am a big Humphrey Bogart fan, and she said he had Bogart's sad eyes. We nursed him to health, and he grew steadily. Was always playful, and protective of us, even as a young pup.
As he got older, he started slowing down, and was having medical problems. For the last couple of years, he had stayed in the house, and didn't really want to go outside anymore, other than to take care of business, and sniff around a little. He was having a hard time getting up the 3 steps onto the one end of the deck, and even having a hard time just standing up, period.
I had to make the decision, and it was not easy for me. He was miserable, and in pain.....
We stayed with him till the end, and he went peacefully to a better place. Rest in Peace, my old Friend.....
 
Pretty much the same story here 4 times in the last 16 years. It never gets any easier. Last time though I just found her out in the yard laying on her side. She was always first to greet me and very jealous of my attention. She also loved it when I shared a little beer with her.
 
I've had many pets in my life, though most of them were when I was very young and they were more the "family" pet, not just mine.
Pretty much all of the dogs either ran away or became sick soon after we got them.
I think we always brought in strays, they were sick when we got them and Dad never wanted to spend the money for a vet.
We had to have many of them put down. I'm sure it wasn't easy for us but somehow we always understood what had to be done.
My sister had cats. Boy did she love for them.
They would lay on the couch and let her put them in almost any position and dress them up.
My brother and I were mean at that age, we'd pick on her and the cats.

The first real pet of my own was when I was first living on my own.
She was a cat we named Reeses.
I lived in a back house. When I first got her and trying to figure out a name, the boy in the front house was eating a Reeses peanut butter cup. I said something like that Reeses looked good and he said Reeses would be a good name so it was done.

Reeses was a cool cat.
The type of cat that liked to roam but always met me at the front door when I got home, looking up at me and meowing as if to say "welcome home buddy". I'm sure she was hungry but it sure was nice to be greeted home by my best friend.
The neatest thing was she'd fetch pencils thrown and slid across the wood floor and bring it back to me to do it again.
When I got married we moved into a condo.
It was one day I came to realize how important it is to train your cat to be a house cat.
Usually she'd greet us at the door but one day she didn't.
We found her laying dead out in a grassy common area with many wounds.
Another animal apparently didn't want to share it's territory.
That was a very sad day.

Now we have a Chihuahua mix.
Much more "other" in her mix than Chihuahua.
She was sickly when we got her.
We bought a cage for her to sleep in but she never wanted to be alone. The only way we could get any rest was if I held my finger in thru the cage for her to lay next to.
I guess that really built a bond between us. She knows what I say goes.
She's 9 years old now and still full of life.
She can just about jump into my arms and I'm 6'2?

She likes to get out through the garage door and make her rounds but she always comes home to the front porch within a 1/2 hour.
I worry every time she's out she'll get hit by a car.

She is a good friend and very much a part of our family.
It will be a sad day anything happens to her.
 
AAPPLE,

Sorry for your loss of your friend I too have had to let a good friend go but I remeber the great and fun times we had togerther
the joy of seeing his face after a hard day at work or just having a bad day brought joy to me. I am sure that he will remember you
in his new life with no pain remembering the great times you had together. Once again sorry for your loss and my prayers are with you.
 
I know how you feel, lost my Sasha last spring.
Although she was never real fond of dry food she would sit for hours while my granddaughter fed her one bit at a time this picture was taken a few years back. 95 lbs, and as gentle a creature as I have ever known

Still hard to talk about her
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same for me and my lab "duke" (named after john wayne) could not even get up to go pee, was hard for me. cried like a baby and he is buried in our back yard where i can know he is close to me.
 
Its never easy saying goodbye to your friends. I've lost 2 cats in the past 4 years. My Runt, I had since she was a small ball of fur in the palm of my hand.
Runt did one last thing in her passing, One day I found myself in the humane. Didn't even look @ any cats. Just went over to one. That one is is with us today. It is as if Runt wanted me to have her.

Losing friends is tough. Plenty others needing a good home. Go save one! :good:
 
We lost our little buddy on Sept 24th and it is amazing how empty the house feels without her there. Damn! Now my monitor is out of focus again!
 

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