I thought the same as you and I was just like you when my first son married one month ago. My 50th. birthday will be next week (Im a 1964 model , all original parts), and I felt as if my days were numbered and on earth. I think the average age of the members of this forum is 50, so I think we've all felt the same way at some point, but we support each other. Andropause really exist? :headscratch: